What do and Should Women Want in Men?

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Women want the full package

02: Value the essentials only

03: A successful individual

04: The irrelevant stuff.

05: Summary

06: Conclusion

07: Author

08: Other info

What do (or should) women want in men? Fit for both men and women.

In this guide, if you're a woman you can learn what to seek in a man or relationship. The guide has been specifically developed to help women refine themselves and know what to value and pursue in a man and relationship.

However, it's equally important for men too, so they could refine themselves and similarly learn what women are going to be valuing and pursuing, so they could realign themselves with the truth and increase their chances of finding a potential partner. On the other hand, I've also written a similar book for men specifically, outlining what to seek in a woman and in a relationship (women should read it too to ensure that they meet those standards men are going to be valuing and pursuing in women too).

Develop a profound distinction. Every time you date, you're to date with meaning, with a reason, rather than just sex and pointless desires and instant gratification. This guide will help you distinguish what to primarily focus on and what to neglect for a perfect relationship. The insights are very profound, and it's designed to make you win in every aspect of your life, too, as well as cultivating a perfect relationship and finding the right partner. For men, it will help you become a better partner, for women, it will help you become a better partner as well as help you find a better man. So it's a winner for both genders. Real depth, hitting every corner where real solutions are desperately needed.

There's a lot more to a relationship, and if you master what to value in a partner or relationship, you stand the chance for greatness in your love life. In this guide, you will gain a deeper insight, and your perspective will truly shift for the better. And you will see more success in your love life, as well as in every aspect of life too. Enjoy.

To answer this question of what women should want in men, we must first consider what all of us, as human beings want in life; what's most essential to life. That will be what's essential, fundamental, and what to focus on, primarily. In that case, we will have to divide our needs into two categories; the essential and nonessential; what we should want out of life and therefore in a relationship too and the secondary or irrelevant things that shouldn't be prioritised.

All the secondary things are the irrelevant things that don't matter as much and shouldn't be prioritised. Those secondary things do not matter as much in life or relationship and could be neglected and discarded all at once. Because they're minor, pathetic, and pointless. You can say they're inexistent. Whereas the essential things are what one must have or aim for, otherwise there's no life without it. We also need to compare the two; what's essential and nonessential to know precisely what to prioritise and focus more on, rather than just walking like the walking-dead; living meaningless and clueless life, like the rest of us are currently doing on a daily basis.

Both men and women want the full package. However, not everyone knows precisely what that "full package" entails. What I mean by the full package is that which we want in life; the essentials. That which you want in life is the same thing we should seek in each other in a relationship (in each other; man or woman). What's that thing we all need in life and should be looking for in both life and relationship? Survival and growth.

The survival I am talking about here is about thriving. A relationship needs to be about two people uniting to work together to fulfil a shared need, i.e. survival. Everything you do in a relationship should be for survival. And survival in the broad sense surpasses the fight for existence and goes as far as securing a better livelihood; thriving, living an abundant life, sharing your lives, having each other's backs, and being there for each other. It's two entity joining forces together for a common interest.

Hence, a relationship with a woman or a man needs to be about meeting each other's needs, being involved in survival and thriving, and enjoying life to the fullest. Survival here is being used as an umbrella term to encompass everything you'd expect in a relationship; literally, everything you do together is just part of surviving and thriving together. Relationship is a fight and work, you have to work just as you'd work alone, but this time you're working for the two or the family. Equality must be present, and both partners must be prepared to get their hands dirty. Now think about it, do you think when people are getting into a relationship, most of think of this survival aspect where you're there to join forces to fight and work together for both? Nope. Most people never focus on that; they just never consider the future and the main objective of joining forces with someone. There's a very vague assumption about relationships these days, especially in the young audiences. Meaningless dating, I call it. Let's refrain from dating and irrelevant reasons, e.g. to please others, for sex, romance, meaningless fun, and several others. Do not try to have some sexual fling here and there, knowing that you have a perfect someone with whom you can share your life and build your lives together through a commitment.

You see that. In other words, when you're dating someone, you must be conscious of survival, and everything you do must be to help both of you enjoy life and thrive and achieve success and greatness and grow beyond measure. Not the childish dating life where you just date for romance and showing off. Only inexperienced people without the awareness of the fundamental nature of reality and how life works can lose themselves in such useless acts of playing about ina relationship. A relationship shouldn't be for playing with; a relationship should mean business. And that partnership must yield more results than it would have otherwise if you were alone and single. You see that now you come to realise that you do not need a relationship at all. That a relationship is irrelevant. A relationship is only relevant when it increases what's being put on the table when it's beneficial when doing something more. That's what I am talking about when I talk about survival. I am saying that a relationship should not kill you by being a burden in your life. A relationship should take some of the weights off you and allow you to thrive and live effortlessly too. As soon as a relationship is putting more weight on you, it's time to leave. If a relationship isn't 50 50, it's time to leave. Both parties must contribute, and no other is coming to just eat and depend on the other. You're both there as involvement and to work together to make things easier and better. That's what I mean by survival.

You cannot skip survival and jump into luxury, which is irrelevant, nonessential, and nonexistent. Young people do not waste their lives going into a relationship. In fact, at a young age, you must focus on building your individual lives quickly, so you can become the ideal man and woman who can yield greatness. So later on, when you're finally successful in your life, you can get into the game of love and spend time and involving your greatness with your partner. So you can live together and build a great legacy or future or life together. Both of you will bring your own experiences and skills, and successes to the table and share them. But in this world, we live. We don't understand the most important things in life. Hence, we begin ruining our lives from a young age, and we never value our lives because we lack the knowledge and how to navigate life properly. Women lose themselves into instant gratifications and fulfilling their desires; the same goes for most men. Hardly any young person wants to educate themselves and build an exceptional life for themselves and thinks future wise. Everyone just thinks small and excuses why they should just ruin their lives and live anyhow. Only to regret their decisions later on in the future. You see that. Every action has it's own consequences, and so does the actions you're going to take from now. Are you going to follow your own paths where you're ignorant to the essentials and what's most important in life and just focus on the meaningless stuff such as sex, looks, popularity, and nonsense? It's all up to you. Be a man or a woman; whatever you ask for and implement will yield that particular result. Ask for ignorance, and you will reap ignorance. Ask for a successful life and a successful and wise partner; you will get that if you work for it.

I repeat, do not go into a relationship for anything other than survival. The fact is, do not go into a relationship until you have a valid reason for it, such as to collaborate, work together, be involved with someone of similar value for a shared interest. Do not go into a relationship just for the sake of it. Do not think that you were born to have a partner—no sir or madam. You were born to single and alone and will die single and alone. Being in partnership with anyone is a choice. But you're not meant to be in a relationship, and if you're not in one, you're perfect. Relationships are unnecessary, my friend; you do not need them. If you can do great on your own, you do not even need a relationship. For what reason? For the headache.

Also, realise that a relationship or two people coming together is automatically a conflict. So know from now on that whenever you enter into a relationship, you go into a fight, you're definitely going to argue and go against each other because you're different people with perhaps different opinions and perceptions and way of life. Hence breakups occur too because there's a lack of harmony. So if you're going into a relationship, you must be willing to fight for it and build it as it's a job too. You must educate each other and ensure that you instil truth only and you're on one page.

The problem is this is how we're wired; we hardly think about survival and aiming for an abundant life and a great future, that survival aspect just doesn't seem to exist in our minds anymore because, for some of us, we have been blinded by the little we have. Now we believe that survival isn't a thing to worry about. But the truth is we must worry about it. The world we live in is a world where most people are unaware and unconcerned about their survival and what the future holds; hence they never pay full attention to the essential and what's fundamental in life; they instead focus all their attention on the irrelevant things because they just don't know; they're unaware, uneducated, unenlightened of the truth. This is why I am putting in such an emphasis so that you may refrain from focusing on the pathetic stuff but focus on the big picture of life, i.e. survival, success, greatness, thriving, abundance, better lifestyle, better partnership, and fulfilling life for you and your partner alone rather than to please society.

Survival is a huge topic; survival is the purpose of life. Your purpose in life is survival. So how can you be ignorant of it and begin joking about and wasting time with relevant practises and people? By survival, I also mean success in every aspect of your life. Your purpose in life is to be successful in life. Until you're successful in every aspect of your life, you do not have a life. Being in a relationship with someone should help you attain your successes; you're not there to play jokes and waste each others time. But you should join with someone to benefit and grow and thrive and just benefit a lot and become more than you'd have been on your own. If that's not the purpose of a relationship, my friend, remain on your own and keep working on your purpose and building your life for you alone.

Relationship is a luxury, not a must. To most of us, it's a must, and if you're not into one, society defines you as a nobody. But never listen to them; just focus on yourself. As long as you can provide for yourself and survive first, as long as you can ut food to the table and thrive, you do not need anyone else. A relationship is a luxury that you choose to be a part of just for temporary enjoyments. But real enjoyments and happiness are in being successful in your life. And when I talk about success, I don't mean money; I am talking about educating yourself and building every aspect of your life after that. Relationship is another thing, and it's the biggest conflict there is and a burden. Happiness is in being single. But should you need to be in a relationship, it must add value to the table.

What both men and women should look for ina relationship and in their partner is to become successful. You go into a relationship to become successful, to benefit, and to make your lives better. Whether it's the sex, the family, the company, etc., it can't just be about the sex without the growth, knowledge, financial success, etc. Most young people will go into a relationship for sex and each others company and minimal outcomes and headaches. You could have n=invested that precious time in building your life, now you have wasted it acting love, and tomorrow you'll realise that you have nothing for survival. Another problem is that that relationship is only temporary rather. So after the breakup, what will you be left with? Nothing. Uncalculated relationships cannot buy you anything. The sad thing is when people ignore everything just to get into a relationship. Relationship at a very young age is a killer because it can traumatise you, ad it can blind you from the truth or the essentials of life. So you will find yourself repeatedly looking for love every after a breakup. No realisation to work on yourself, and it will take you longer to realise what matters most in life. All of those are losses. And then, after all those wasted time, starting to build your life from scratch won't be easy. Hence, you will find most people quitting and having it. It's all because you wasted your young age. But if you had properly invested it into growth right now, you could have been reaping the fruits. But no, "life is too short", as people rationalise.

In a relationship, you're looking for success and celebrating life together.

It's not as light as one would think. Survival is not just food, shelter, health or medicine, peace, and freedom. Survival is a gigantic topic, and it also involves education because education means everything, and it's the one that represents all the essentials. For example, you can't know how to do anything without knowledge, and you, therefore, can't survive. Knowledge is the power, so you want a guy with the knowledge that's just fundamental, above all. Survival is equivalent to having financial security. Money represents value, and value is everything. One with financial success is one with everything, and hence wealthy and ambitious people are the ideal people to date. Because they have or may end up having what it takes to survive, not forgetting that everything, including the money, comes from knowledge, so knowledge is fundamental here. One with knowledge is one with money and everything else, i.e. survival. One with knowledge is one with everything, and that's the purpose to go for; a successful, superior man of meaning and purpose.

Remember that depending on the world you live in. Your specific situations, knowledge or even wealth alone and material wealth may not save you for instance; if you're in a world where you lack peace and freedom, we're not including these situations in the picture; we're talking about a dating scene in a free, democratic, and peaceful world. What you're naturally as an individual or a race or ethnicity or your way of life isn't a danger to your survival. We're talking about a world where your survival is purely based on putting something on the table, effective navigation of life, and affording to maintain your livelihood for a prolonged period of time.

As a woman, in such a free world, you want to be dating a man who shows all the survival traits, e.g. ambition, determination, potential, financial freedom, stiving for life abundant, wanting more, hungry, persistent, good character, great foundation, firm in life, healthy, hygienic, smart, clean, learning, self-improving, self-care, always trying to be the best version of themselves, one with morals, principled, strong-minded, etc. Those are the attributions to look for in a man. You want a successful man.

An ideal guy can offer all of these things; food, shelter, financial freedom, knowledge, health, happiness, comfort, peace, protection for a prolonged period of time. Those are the things that are essential for survival. Those are the reasons why women marry hypergamously, to begin with. Because they want to increase their chances of survival, and they'd rather partner with a powerful figure than a weaker one. So there you have it. Ladies, always strive for a man who's working on their purpose and striving to get the best of life. That's the ideal person to partner and do business with. Life is a business, but the majority of people take life as a joke. It's not a joke. If you're uneducated about these matters, you will lose out in life and won't be "fit" for survival. Most people you see daily wouldn't tell you this secret that survival comes first. Most people just live like apes, with no consideration for anything; hardly anyone reads, so how will people know this. Every woman is rooting for their type of guy based on a rotten benchmark they've copied from society and flawed minds. You see that. If you don't know about the power of survival and the fact that survival is all there is and all that matters in life, you will end up playing games and joking about and shooting yourself in the food, right? Right. I repeat survival comes first and last—end of.
 

The first and the last thing to consider is survival. Survival comes first and last over everything; as long as you survive, there's nothing else. Any other thing is irrelevant or, as you may call it, 'luxury'. Never be fooled by looks, sex, jokes, one's fluency in a language, figure, or swagger because all of those means nothing. Real greatness is results and actions. Where is the result? Because you can have the looks, the fluency, the pretence of being knowledgeable, the nice eyes, the swagger, and the talents, but where are the results or actions, where is the survival/ If you see no potential in a guy, keep looking for another man until you find survival that you wouldn't want to slip from. You do not want to joke about, my friend, do you understand me? Let those who joke about and waste their life do so at their own will and expense. Our results, future and destiny, is a choice, and it's in our hands. And let me suggest that, when you find your ideal guy, try your best to secure him. Why? Because you will never find such an opportunity twice. I am sorry, but that's how life is like. We live in a tiny competitive world, and not many are successful, and not many and do many great things, so if you discover someone who could potentially become a better partner and help drive the success of both of your lives. Do something about it urgently.

The first thing to worry about in life is, can you survive? Can you benefit from this guy? Can you benefit from their experience, grow, etc.? You see, most of us forget ourselves. Like, life is about you, not the crush, not judgmental people, society, your family, siblings, or friends. That means every relationship you get into must help benefit you too, and you want to strike for a better deal that makes your life better. You can't just date any random guy who's perfection has been defined by your common sense or society. No. You need to remember that reality has already defined perfection for us. What is perfection? Perfection is a reality. This means whatever there is 100% perfect, and there's absolutely no reason or right or wrong way it is. There's no such thing as imperfect. Everything is perfect; only your mind and other opinions can distort that perfection because you don't know what you're doing.

Today we have many women dating without any knowledge of what to prioritise in life, what they want out of that relationship, let alone what they want in life or what's essential and only matters. They just date for the wrong reasons, reasons that shouldn't exist, irrelevant needs and desires. Like, okay, what's dating for looks, for instance, going to do for you? Fair enough if it bought did put food on the table, provided the essential, security, peace, money, actions, determination, strength, and all abundance., but it doesn't. You've never seen someone who becomes very knowledgeable and very wealthy out of looks, have you? Let's take the example of bill gates, is bill gates very clever and financially successful due to his looks? Nope. Is looks essential for anything or all-encompassing greatness? Nope. So why has society put it on the pedestal so much to the point it's fooling the uneducated of us? Think for yourself, and think deeply; otherwise, you will lose a huge deal. The truth is the truth, and you can ignore the truth; it's all fine, but every action has its own consequences. You will have to pay your forfeit for ignoring the truth too. So never be fooled by irrelevant things and end up finding yourself in a matrix where you've lost all your chances. Do not waste your life on silly things or listen to anyone's bad ideas. Train yourself to depend on your own observations and opinions, and you do that by studying like you're doing right now, but you must keep it up too, never give up, keep growing. Do not date for looks because that's the same as reading a book judged by its cover. Think big, think future, think outside the box, compare and find a partner who's on top of his game and collaborate. Do not be fooled by instant gratification, and never fulfil your sexual desires with just anyone because bonds are powerful. You just want it developed with anyone because it could come back and haunt you or affect your future. Do not follow what's popular, what's trending, what society or culture defines as ideal, and what your common sense suggests is the ideal partner based on very minimal judgements of the person, judging by the surface.

Do not judge by the surface; judge by the character, action and results, most importantly. The cover of anything is not an issue at all, just the content that matters. The cover is also subject to change and is never permanent. In fact, the cover is just an illusion, anyway, so please do not focus too much on that. But that requires some brain-work to be conscious of the facts. Hence you're going to have to keep learning and getting used to the new knowledge. It's not easy for everyone; even very educated minds still find it hard to grasp certain subjects' irrelevance. That's just because reality can be very complex and tricky to grasp properly.

What is the guy doing, how are they approaching life, and can you benefit and end up surviving? Your life comes first. Is being with them going to make your life much easier and you can flourish? What path are they taking, and what is their destiny? Date ambitious men with potential, not jokers. Be in partnership with someone who's very disciplined to win in life, not some random man who's just going to have temporary fun with you and ruin your life when you could have invested and gifted yourself to someone who deserves it; an ideal person. So, do not be shaken by those pathetic quick needs such as sex, looks, one's height, or popular lifestyles. I repeat, do not ruin your body, life, and energy on the wrong guy, and your only excuse is, "we only live once, I am missing out, it could be too late for me, I am just going to try once, there's nothing to lose, etc.". No. People who rationalise like that are the people without a clear sense of what life is and how precious their life is, and how better they could do in life.

Anyone without meaning and purpose in life will make calamitous mistakes only to realise later when it's already too late. Please, I am warning you, judge properly, and Don base your love or relationship on looks because looks and pathetic standards defined by your common sense and society and culture and others opinions are an illusion; they don't exist. Do not listen to anyone who makes you misjudge and make poor decisions. Focus on educating yourself so you can rely on your own thinking and reasoning. Put yourself first, and realise that you do not need a relationship unless it benefits your growth and survival, most importantly. Do not go into a relationship primarily for sex and to be cuddled and for "relationship goals", and this and that. Those are pathetic things only done by fools without sense and future. So be different from now on, think different, be smart, put yourself first before everything else. You even come first before a man. You go into a relationship not to please the man but to please yourself first, followed by the man; by nature, you're going into the relationship because there's something you want to gain from it; you're not going to work and volunteer. So keep that in mind, you're going into a partnership for your own best interest, although to achieve that, you're going to unite and serve the two of you as one in the end.

Think of yourself; you should go into a partnership where you're not even sure whether you have the potential to win or go in for the wrong reasons. A company doesn't partner with the other company that doesn't show promise for success, and they don't collaborate just for the sake of collaborating to please others. Its all business; it's all to benefit; forget what others think. You see, the problem with us is we're so absorbed into what others think of us, what the world expects of us, we date for the wrong reasons and later on find ourselves in hell. This is an awakening call for you to date for the right reason for you alone, you alone, you alone. Do not date to please your friend, mum, dad, siblings, society, country, the world, trends, others opinions, and not even your own expectations and "type" or common sense and a flawed benchmark. Date logically, think about what's essential in life, hence your relationships and approach to life. Be extremely open-mindedness, my friend, because a slight slip will land you in hell, and that's coming straight from my heart, no jokes. Date for you and by you, I don't mean to please your eye, but to please your survival, living, existence, happiness, knowledge, growth, financial freedom, and just life. That's all. Don't take your life so personal as if you’re so special and were born to have a partner with looks and perfection in every aspect of your life.

Don't lose touch with reality. Realise what life is and know that everything is perfect as it is; the world doesn't need to look like the fantasy you have created in your head. Forget that fantasy and realise that life is the opposite of those unrealistic dreams you come up with. In fact, to be clear with you, all those "types" or standards you set for yourself are to please other people. Like the looks, height, figure, this and that, please other people rather than yourself. Change it asap; otherwise, going against reality will cost you a hefty amount.

Treat everyone equally and realise life and see how everyone needs the same chance you're looking for. Treat everyone equally, and don't lose yourself in your dreams and fantasies. Don't lose yourself in a discriminatory world where people discriminate against others, and you're also falling for it and becoming part of the problem.

Be a solution to society too, and educate others through your approach to life. Seek for a guy who's going to collaborate with you and unite and bring more out of life. Do not live for others. Live for knowledge, experience, survival, fun, affording life, freedom, which includes freedom from others perceptions of you and your love life and how you approach life. Everything else, including sex, looks, popularity, fame, rediculous lifestyles, etc., are all a waste of time and life. So be extra, extra cautious. This life is not a joke, and it o ly comes once, so if you mess yours up, that's up to you, my friend, that's up to you, and you will not blame anyone for it, sorry. And the funny thing is, no one gives an f; the universe doesn’t give an f, so the only person to give an f about is you for you. You will not blame anyone, not even the society or the friend or your own thinking that mislead you. When you have lost, you have lost, and there, no refunds to life; you will have to face it.

Did you know that you could also discriminate against others through your lack of education, where you lack depth in how life works? We're not supposed to judge, and every time you judge someone, you're unnecessarily creating divisions and segregating people. Grouping people and putting boundaries between everything, labelling someone as superior and more special than the rest. It's also important not to discriminate because inherently in life, there's no discrimination; everyone is perfect and one. So the only division can be made by you, not life itself, so your preferences and divisions are invalid. Hence it's key not to be too judgemental to the point you lose on big opportunities that you may never see ever again. Be wise, be careful, respect everyone, and treat all equally. You wouldn't want yo be discriminated against for being the perfection you're by nature. So don't wish what you wouldn't wish for yourself on others. Do not judge, as simple as that; judging is a waste of time, a mistake, a loss, and a sin. I'd note that down If I were you; very powerful, indeed.

You do not want faces and appearances to fool you from pinpointing what you really need, and what matters. Most women get fooled by looks, but we still end dating the ones we labelled as average or one's we never thought we'd desire. There are actually many examples of this in celebrities, where she was to prestige and unattainable but ended up with one you'd describe as average. Aren't there many? This example is pervasive; it's literally everywhere. But why is that the case? It's because what's real will always remain real. The truth always wins. What I am talking about here is the real truth and will always remain the truth. Looks is not the thing that matters; the book cover is not what matters, and superficial things are not what matters at all. It's not about the looks; let's not be fooled here. You do not want faces and appearances to fool you from pinpointing what you really need, and what matters. Most women are running after the illusion of physical appearances and faces but forgetting their real need. But the realisation of what matters in life comes from education. You have to learn and think bigger and articulate and pinpoint what to value in life, instead of operating by society and common-sense definitions.

It's not the face or the cover that matters; it's the content within, the abilities, capabilities, and having a man that can actually stick with you through thick and thin; it's about genuinely having someone, they do not have to be a certain way as long as they're trying and striving to be the best version of themselves. If you judged a book by its cover, you'd lose the entire value of its content, wouldn't you? Of course, you would.

Your purpose in life is to be successful alone, and that what the essential entails. You need a meaningful relationship rather than a blind and nonessential one. So be extra careful, you women, work on yourselves, and know what you want. And always know that this world is harsh; it's not a joke. So the only thing you want is survival and support; it's nothing to do with looks. Your relationship needs to value survival and support, and the rest is headache and rubbish.

The rest is trash; trying to deceive others that you're superior suing your cover when deep down in your core and character, you're completely weak and can't survive. When deep down, you're not superior and don't have the actual values that determine superiority. Being a pleaser to the world, wanting to be judged and perceived by the cover, being pathetic and undeveloped, being unsuccessful, being superficial and forgetting the fundamental nature of reality, not realising the cruelty of reality, being fooled by others mindsets and opinions, not using your own mind but others to run your life, etc.

Those are some of the forces that crush people down and blind them, eventually turning them into losers and followers rather than actual leaders of your own life and destiny. It's harder than ever today for a woman to know exactly what she wants; even if you showed her what she wants, she'd still have doubts; why? Because she's uncultivated enough to know precisely what she wants. Give her survival, which is the ultimate fulfilling thing she needs. Still, she'll never realise it and will remain dissatisfied and keep looking for other qualities that she hopes will satisfy her like society portrays. That women then is very likely to lose survival and end up following the illusion, which she'll, later on, discover that it's too late and she has lost it. You're looking for survival and support, and you can start building towards that on your own. You start from personal development, build the lifestyle you want, do this alone, or if you're lucky enough to have the right man on your side whom you're in harmony with, then you can work together and build your own pride. Learn from the Lions Pride. They partner for survival and support. So he makes your life better, he makes you survive, he supports you, and he's on your side, then you're a winner right there, and you have the full package. Stop running around, looking for other illusions when what you have (which is the same illusion) is sufficient.

So my emphasis is, at all costs, women, what you want is survival and support. Not showing off and romanticising. Do not get lost in sex and appearances, be society's pleasers, and forget about the real meaning in life. The world is not simple; the world is not a joke; the world will beat you to your feet’s without mercy if you don't know what to value in life. This is the same reason you must check your ego and attitude and remember never to get carried away with being too disrespectful. This message is for everyone, though; the point is you need to walk life cautiously and be mathematical and calculated. Otherwise, you could become a loser. That's not what you want; you want to be a winner, right?

Well, in life, a winner is someone who can survive and continue to fulfil their purposes in life (building something meaningful, building your own empire, building your life, and remembering that everything we do is for survival; to be at the top of survival. One who can survive is the one who earns the title of being superior and above. Looks isn't survival; looks aren't superiority.

A successful person can provide all the essentials. Of course, all the irrelevant stuff such as; sex, popularity, even looks, lifestyles are achievable after the essentials. The essential is a successful man who has his life together, and the rest is history.

Character and survival are what you must pursue and is what success and greatness is, and is what the whole package refers to. Women find a man with a great character (One who's cultivated) and one who can standby and promise survival and is capable. That's the partner you want to do business with; that's the partner you want to buy and invest in. Be very careful because if you ignore life's essentials, you will lose yourself in chaos, in the illusions of looks. I've given many caviars if you pursue the cover of a book, if you pursue a man’s face, you have lost, there's no argument in that. Do not forsake reality, make it your best and closest friend, and walk authentically, being very wise and prudent.

Women want a man who refined and has cultivated their life, and built themselves and are superior; women marry up. Hypergamy is real. Now because hypergamy is real, hypogamy also becomes real. A woman wants someone superior to take care of the business, not the other way around. Women are looking for a superior man, so as a man, that's the man you need to cultivate. So you men should work on yourselves and build your lives first and ensure that you have stability, you have survival, and you have all the qualities and the successful characters. You need to build an attractive life, a life that promises survival and comfort. It's not about building your faces, and physical body that matters or that's fundamental; it’s life.

Focus on life, and the rest is just history. Your body or face doesn't need altering; just strive to look good physically, and be smart and look good to the best of your ability. It's your life that needs altering. Perhaps changing the way you look is to serve a certain purpose and role that allows you to thrive, but you can't just change your looks, especially to please others or even yourself. Why? Understand life deep enough, and you'll discover that you do not even have to please yourself or look a certain way to be perfect or to please others. You're perfect already. Do animals complain about their looks? No, they don't even know how they look; the same goes for you. You should never really know how you look; all these things that make you see how you look are a curse as they make us emphasise a lot on looks. But all of them are an illusion, even your eyes and others eyes and those mirrors and phones; they're not inherent; we're the ones who made them a couple of years here. Did you know if you lived in a world where people are primitive and give no value to mirrors and phones, there's a significantly reduced stigma on looks?
 

The other way is to educate yourself and enlighten yourself with the knowledge of reality and realise non-duality or the fact that we're all one regardless and that we're nothing at the same time. So, do not be fooled by the mirrors and the looks that don't exist or the eyes that don't exist. Realise that everything is just an illusion. Be enlightened and understand reality and never discriminate against others as if they're unworthy and equally don't matter. Be really careful because this is the truth, and if you mess with the truth, the truth will mess with you. After all, you want a successful family that can promise survival.
 

Master yourself, realise and raise your value, and I swear you will harness great power, peace, freedom, success, and happiness. Keep it up. Also, realise that you want a successful person who can help grow you or one that you may end up sharing the same values in life and maintain harmony and better bondage.

Other than good character and a well-cultivated self, what else do people go for? I am telling you that, as long as you can survive, everything else is only a luxury and an option. The first thing for you is to survive, which means you want someone that can support survival, someone who's well-cultivated, can support you in life and help contribute and put something on the table. That survival attribute can change, though; it can be a man's capacity, looks, masculinity or physic, physical strength, etc. if it only takes a certain type of people to survive depending on the type of world you live in. However, everything boils down to putting food on the table.

You need to be very careful and think of life broadly and learn what life is all about. If you do not know what life is all about, you can end up making very terrible decisions that will, later on, affect your life, like ignoring the necessities and essentials, and rather trying to go for luxuries, popularities, looks, trends, etc. All of those are irrelevant. Your "type can easily fool you". You may think your type can be manifested into reality or met one day, only to realise it's only a fantasy. You can even end up missing an opportunity because you don't know how life works, and you're so fixated on the delusions of having a perfect individual.

Like all of us, women expect sex too. Sex is also a relevant part of survival and staying nourished and healthy too. But let's not confuse it with having sex with just any random people you find or get tricked into falling for. Sex is good, but you must have it with the right person with whom you know there's a potential for a future.

Give sex to an ideal guy rather than just any guy. Do not rationalise that you're missing out, you're ageing, and this and that. Save yourself and share it with a man you can cherish your life together, the ideal guy you have met and have properly observed and tested that you share common values. Nowadays, most people are reckless and have lost the value of patience and abstinence until they meet the ideal partner. Hardly anyone knows what they want out of life, and most believe life comes once and you're just meant to live anyhow without meaning or plan. But the truth is we need to have a plan, live a meaningful life, and do things the right way. Some of those acts and decisions are influenced by society and what others and friends are doing. The lack of knowledge is the issue; why? Because knowledge is power. If one knew how to approach life effectively, they'd approach life accordingly. But since most do not know and their lives are not principled and oriented, the majority will live anyhow and live by pathetic standards. Truth is not recognised, and an ideal partner is not recognised too. A woman will leave a great successful man for someone who holds absolutely no future at all. Not because the successful person is weak, but because the woman is blind and cannot see what's good for her, so she jumps on trends and what her common sense and society suggest. But the problem is that. Truth is hidden under the covers; it's not easily found. That's why many women are going to have a tough time spotting the right opportunities. And this is why I put much emphasis on education. Keep learning, keep developing, keep raising your awareness. And soon you will stand a chance of winning in every aspect of your life.

However, sex is still irrelevant. You may ask how?

Well, it's because you do not need to have sex until you find the right partner. You're not meant to run around and share your body with just any person. The person you share your body with the need to be a man who's collected and is principled and is an ideal man; a successful man, rather than any other man. You need to be able to discern and identify the right man for yourself. We already described an ideal person in previous chapters, so use those guides to pinpoint the right man to enjoy your life with. Letting someone in your body is letting someone in your core and temple. That person could ruin your life. It's fair enough if you don't value yourself and just want to be reckless, but if you're a normal person who takes great pride in yourself and wants to achieve more in life, you will also strive for the best in life. But all of this comes from growth; you need to grow yourself to value yourself; otherwise, you'll take yourself so lightly and simply. And can end up ruining your life just like the majority of people are doing.

Sex is nothing. You're not missing out, and you do not need to pursue it now. Let me ask you. Sex and self, which one will always remain? It's the self. Sex is some temporary feelings and experiences, so it's something that should steal all of your attention. Focus on your success and secure your survival and future first. Put yourself on the pedestal, and anything that's not you should come secondary. You see that anything that's not going to promise your survival should be inexistent. Take it's importance away; take it's life away, and give life to self and not sexual activities and pathetic things. Do not lose yourself for the wrong ideas. Until you are successful or met the right person to grow with, do not give your body to the wrong people to ruin it and be a part of you. Those people can haunt, traumatise you, and even ruin your great future. Be patient and seek the right person to share your life with, and do not copy society. You do not have to have sex at an early age or build a family like your friends do with just anyone. And tomorrow, you see them suffering the consequences for their actions.

Not to mention the feeling or joy of sex is only short-lived and temporary. After that, you have to go back to normal life. But your life and sex life could have been better if you approached life differently if you worked on your life, so you could live effortlessly and have nothing to worry about. Then you could enjoy yourself 360 degrees. The whole life just becomes an extraordinary experience in itself; life becomes so sweet, just like sex itself. But all of that requires sacrifice, and that sacrifice is patience and working hard on yourself, as well as working hard to find the right person and to build your lives together too. Besides, usually, after sex, which hardly lasts any longer, not even a day, you must return to your normal life like nothing happened at all. Therefore, do not get fooled by sex. Sexual intercourse shouldn't be the purpose of your relationship or a bondage matter. Sex is nothing after you have it, and the feeling just fades away. What remains is life, your normal life. After sex, you still need to survive and put food on the table. After sex, the whole burden of life kicks back again.

So sex is only temporary, and you do not want to think and base your life on it; otherwise, the consequences are stacked against you. Yes, you've had sex; now you must get up and find a way to survive and put food to the table. Now you've had sex; you must still navigate life effectively, which all comes from a successfully cultivated character.

Instant gratification and sex

Abstain from sex until you find the right partner. Do not be fooled by sexual feelings and desires, which can make you run after what you don't deserve. Another note to remember is that not all men who tell you they like or love you are an ideal guy for you to date. Many men are going to like, complement, fall for you. But that doesn't mean they're ideal. You're the one to determine what's ideal for you. And you should never do anything with a man because you're afraid of rejecting them. Sorry, but it's not your business to entertain every man out there, so remove that pleaser mentality out of you and strive for what you must have. Every man wants you, every man wants to have a chance with you, but which man is the perfect one for you? Do you see that?

So there you have it, be very openminded and remember that a single wrong move could affect your future. Keep the power with you and don't just throw yourself to anyone. The reason why most people are reckless in life is that most people lack meaning; they live like animals and don't know what's happening, what to value and what not to value. You can see that in their results; very meagre. So what you need to do is to separate yourself from the pack and follow your own path. And do not let others affect your meaning and way of life. Stay different.

Another reason why most women will let themselves go is they'll rationalise that they're inadequate and low-value to the point there's no other option but to go for any guy that's available because they fear they'll never find a better person ever in the future. If the issue is insecurities and the feeling of inadequacy and low value, that's something you can work on. You can raise your value and attain what you deserve. You can learn, improve, and become more than what you'd have otherwise settled for.

Having children, creating a family, etc., all of these things come secondary after being successful in your life and having a thriving life and even a relationship. Many women and men run after the irrelevant things first, not knowing that they are not essential. Like you do not have to have sex, looks, a partner, a family, children, popularity, others likings, others love, others compliments, etc. All you need is your freedom, peace, life, meaning, and purpose, and you will live fine. All of these things such as relationship, sex, family, this and that are irrelevant and secondary and a luxury. Having kids is a luxury, not fundamental, regardless of its benefits. So, put yourself first, and u until you're happy and fulfilled everywhere, do not focus on the secondary stuff. Leave that for later, do not prioritise them yet. Prioritise you and your purpose and finWe're talking about adding a better man you can share your lives and partner for a very long time for growth and success and your own family.

Other irrelevant stuff we've mentioned in previous chapters and above, such as looks, popularity, appearance, height, physical characteristics, etc. My friend, stay away from those and don't be fooled a single bit. Do not be fooled by how fluent someone speaks or their cover because all those irrelevant things do not buy everlasting happiness or the success and growth you and. They won't buy the essentials you need in life; they Won't put food on the table. Don't mess about and find your life in hardship sooner or later. Prioritise you, your life alone because alone is all there is no matter being in a relationship, the result is alone. So make sure you're gaining for yourself alone as well. Also, be patient, do not rush, the world is big, and there's nothing to lose at the end of it. But also do not expect to find entirely depend on a successful person.

Otherwise, you may never find such a person. Find someone who's ambitious enough, or help make one your ideal man who can promise a better future for both. Go into a relationship to get involved and build a life together with someone, do not just expect to eat. Even successful men want a woman who's trying to be the best; a woman who's there to support and help out. You're supposed to be a helper and a worker too in developing your lives. Women, I must warn you, you should rid of this entitlement and privilege where you feel like you're so special above men, and women should just come and feed and babysit you like you're some sort of angel. Nope.

You're expected to get your hands dirty too, otherwise, you will be left behind. Remove the fantasy out of your heads. We're all equal and want the best of life. And so when we join in a relationship, we must join to participate equally and grow together. You're all there to contribute one way or the other, and no one is better than the other, and no one is to contribute more than the other. Be conscious of everything we've discussed in this guide, and you're on your way to success and greatness in your life and love life. Well done.

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The main point of this guide was as follow:

Women, life is not a joke. Life is a business. So only mess with a company, i.e. a man that will help you genuinely thrive in life. You want to find a knowledgeable partner and make your life easier to navigate life with. You're not here t shoot yourselves in the foot or make life extremely difficult for yourselves. Well, that's why I said, when you find the right guy, take it instead of hesitating and losing the chance. But make calculated moves and not be fooled by any of the delusions mentioned in this guide. Survival is the only thing that exists, and the rest don't exist. So it's your choice; do you choose to live a life of fantasy or real-life success, greatness, and abundance?

Congratulations!

Well done, you've made it once again; another one in the bag, a great achievement. Definitely, something to be proud of, for it's not so easy. You've achieved something most people don't and will never have. So, be grateful and realise your blessings, and pat yourself on the back; reading alone is in itself a success.

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