Spark and maintain attraction for men

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Before chasing love & Relationship

02: The first attraction

03: The game of love & attraction

04: How to spark and maintain attraction

05: Attraction Killer

06: Summary

07: Conclusion

08: Author

09: Other info

How to spark and maintain attraction. Make her be attracted to you and learn to maintain the attraction and relationship. Know all about relationship; from the beginning to maintaining it. Knowing how to effectively spark attraction and how to maintain it is power in an everlasting and fulfilling relationship.

The game of relationship, love, and attraction is not a simple one. So you cannot just jump into finding love and making love without having everything in order first. Otherwise, you end up losing yourself because you were doing what you don't know. You were simply operating by the flow instead of by certainty. But in this guide, we're going to change that for you so that the next time, you can live a coordinated and calculated life where you accurately know how to deal with everything including relationships. Relationships are a danger, chaos, conflict. So for it to truly work, you must truly work it and remove all the chaos and the conflicts within, to instil harmony. i.e. attraction, and love.

Before rooting for love and relationships, the first thing to consider is you. Are you ready to play the game of relationship and love? Are you ready to play the game of life? If you're not ready then guaranteed you're going to fail both in your life and in maintaining your relationships with others. And this goes both ways for men and women.

If you a woman who's not well-cultivated and you have a very poor mindset of life and creating balance in everything, then regardless of your worth and value, regardless of your looks, no man will want to be with you. They'll get tired and rather live by themselves or move on. The same goes for guys but it's worse for men because women marry up (Hypergamy is real), women want to marry superior leaders who know it all and can lead, provide, and serve. So as a man it's critical to be more advanced than the woman.

Hence it's encumbered on you to work hard and get your life together. Women also have to sort their lives too, but they do not work as much as us why? Because they could easily focus on hunting for that ultimate leader that can support them, and they're very likely to find one. But forget what they do right now, just focus on you first, if you're a man. You will enter the game of love and relationship when you're ready. Women on the other hand are ever ready and if they find the right guy, that guy can actually straighten them, and they'll listen and obey. Why? Because they won't afford to lose that leader, because leaders don't come in numbers; they're very scarce. You see that. However, it's still important for both parties to develop their individual lives first before they unite in love as it just makes things a lot easy, instead of quarrelling and having unnecessary conflicts.

Until you're very enlightened and accomplished you cannot understand it and know how to deal with the whole of life and love itself.

To be attractive first of all you need to be a successful individual/ a great individual. One who's life is all refined and is doing very well in their life. That's how you attract anyone. You have to build your life first, self-improve like you're doing now, and yield great results and improve your quality of life, and just master everything and have your life in order.

That's how you become a person of high value, a leader, an attractive individual, a smart and intelligent person, one with wisdom, one who's charming and knows how to effectively manoeuvre themselves in life. That's the first mission and purpose for you. Not running after love, because love comes and go, and if the love that you go in leave, what's left? Nothing, you remain a loser, don't you? But when you're the boss, you have nothing to lose and you remain a boss and continue to win.

Now you're ready for the game of love. How do you play it? Well, as discussed in previous chapters, at least now love and relationships and everything else are all effortless to manage — because you're cultivated and have a great depth in life and know your purposes, goals, roles, this and that. You’re mature enough now, you’re fully understanding. You’re not just an empty shell. You have content, and you’re someone of value. The next mission is to play love, which involves having to attract your d partner be able to maintain that attraction too. why? Because you're the boss, you have nothing to lose. You're a successful individual.

People can come into your life or leave and it won't affect you or it won't affect you as much as if you're still a loser. Besides now you're very accomplished and can deal with everything, you have boundaries that can't be crossed because there are consequences for crossing them. You can just walk away, in fact. That's the power you have, the fact that you can walk away and still be fine or even find another person. Who loses? Either no one if you're all equally successful or the other person who's less successful. So one who's less successful will be the one who's very attracted to you, and they'll fight for the relationship.

Because losing you means losing something of significant value, who wants to do that then go back and start from scratch again. That’s a very big loss. When you're very successful and powerful there's a power shift, you have the power, and no one can mess with you anyhow, because you can't mess with power anyhow. Power can destroy your life, that's not to be taken as arrogance at all, that's just reality. You mess with power, there's a side effect.

When you're fake. You're one of those people who're acting cultivated and developed when you're not. You act wealthy when you're not. You act powerfully when you actually don't have any powers. How is anyone going to be attracted to you, am talking about men here, because it's women who're attracted to power. Though men do too, in terms of relationship-wise, we're saying women marry hypergamously no matter what (do not be fooled by society or events; hypergamy always win). If you're inauthentic, how will anyone be attracted to you? If you have weak boundaries and let people walk all over you, let women walk all of you and never fire them. You're being fake and unreal and entertaining fake love. You’re too nice and don't really have the real qualities of a leader. That's the same as playing a game without rules, someone could easily spit on your face and you can't act against it because you have no boundaries. You don't have any principals and lines. How are you going to be respected? Because it is the boundaries you have that attracts people and make them follow the rules correctly. If you're open to everyone and saying "am here for you no matter what, even if you've done me wrong, I'll just forgive you" that already shows weakness.

An attractive man is a man who's successful; a man who knows life, a man with sense, a man with purpose, and a man who firmly stands his grounds. That's the man everyone woman wants to be and work with. That's the man anyone wants to be friends with or do business with because they're skilled and knowledgeable and can yield greatness in most aspects of life.

Set up firm boundaries, though know how to balance them too. Do not let anyone walk all over you. Have an abundant life, where you have other important things to do e.g. your purposes and missions. Be someone with abundance and can move on and have potential with other women. Be mysterious and don’t be too available. Be scarce and not readily available. Sometimes it's good to be alone and create distance and be missed. Always aim to be the best version of yourself and as attractive as possible (And am not talking about physical appearances here, am talking about continuing to self-improve). You do not always have to be funny and laughing and being silly; there's time for everything. There's time for laughing, being silly, playing with the pillows, playing with the kids, and there's sometimes for seriousness.

There's time to spend time with your family and partner and this and that, but there's also time to be alone or even with your boys or doing your own thing. A relationship doesn't mean holding your hands 24/7. No. A good relationship is that of commitment, yes. But you want to spark it. You do not always want to be the same and predictable. That's not only good for your relationship but for life in general too. You can't be the same forever, changes are required to spark things up. Just, for instance, the way you paint your house and change the themes of things. Similarly, do not be predictable. This week you were so loving, next week you're unavailable and you're too focussed on your missions. A good relationship is also full of surprises, surprise your partner and just continue to spark the relationship and attraction.

Those similar points apply even when you begin dating your crush. Because you need to realise that people are more attracted to what they can't easily get. That's why when you're more focussed on other things, your partner will crave your attention. That's attraction, right there. Even you as a guy, when your wife is unavailable you miss her and you want her to don't you? Scarcity and surprises create attraction. There you have, do not be boring, always find many ways to spark attraction. For instance, sometimes you must live without complimenting your partner, then you do it after a while and remind them of how grateful you're having them.

You see that, it's all about being playful but genuine too. There’s just a lot that comes into play, a lot of nitty-gritty, I cannot tell you to do specific things alone and promise that they'll work because sometimes the opposite is what will work. So it's about observation. You observe and think for yourself, use al your wisdom and intuition and what you've learnt in life and in here (personal development) and experiences, to decide what to do.

Any relationship that lacks the fundamental knowledge of life and how to effectively navigate life and manage everything is a failure. If any of you has a limited perspective on life, your relationship and affinity to reconcile and reach harmony will be very challenging. And that's when a woman may find that a relationship with you is becoming very costly, and hence they may easily leave you.

Do not be too mean, rude, ignorant, and negligent. Do not be too toxic, do not hurt the other person. Be cautious. Realise how the other person matters and how they shouldn't be treated in evil manner. Don't play the games too long e.g. try to be mean on purpose and ignorant to deliberately hurt the other person. You can take measures to spark your attractions but you shouldn't participate in dangerous ideas that might end up destroying your relationship and attraction. You cannot be ignorant for too long. You must play both the chasing game and the walking-away game (Interested and disinterest game) but all at the right time and with prudence. Just because she can chase you doesn't mean you can't chase her back. Relationships consist of continually being chased and you chasing the other person too. And if not executed properly, the other person who's not being chased can completely lose interest and attraction for you. Why? Because they genuinely think you don't like them back, and there's no balance and no reason to chase you back.

So keep playing the game very well and have some balance. You have the power to create the intensity at which someone can be attracted to you through balancing the chance and pull away approach to a relationship. You can't disappear for years and expect your crush to still have attraction and love for you, and you can't be too available and expect your levels of attraction to remain the same. People want something they can't have. So once your crush has a complete hold of you, that's happiness on their side and they do not have to work hard for you anymore because they know you're already secured. But when there's uncertainty, that's when there's no comfort as they have to fight to earn you to restore that comfort and fulfilment.
 

So use those powers to your greatest advantage and maintain your relationships and love for each other. These are just natural ways of dealing with relationships. Just be careful, and not naive. Don't go missing for weeks and expect no changes. Or be one-sided rather than play both sides at the right time.

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The main point of this guide was as follow:

You need to put yourself first, on the pedestal. Educate yourself, learn, prepare yourself, love yourself, and cultivate every aspect of your life first before finding love. Then you have the right knowledge it takes to effectively get whatever you want and be able to maintain attraction and relationship too. Running after love without prior knowledge of how to deal and balance everything is not the right approach to life and love. There's no one answer to everything; the only answer is truth and maintaining balance in everything you do.

Congratulations!

Well done, you've made it once again; another one in the bag, a great achievement. Definitely, something to be proud of for it's not so easy. You've achieved something most people don't and will never have. So, be grateful and realise your blessings, and pat yourself on the back; reading alone is in itself a success.

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