Physical insecurities destroyed

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Why it's important to tackles physical insecurities

02: Why insecurities exist

03: Why want to look a certain way, anyways?

04: Accepting life as it comes

05: Do not let others put you off

06: Summary

07: Conclusion

08: Author

09: Other info

Mastering your insecurities is key to your overall greatness.

There are many insecurities out there from facial, size, shape, colour, hair, teeth, disability, etc.

There's truly many. My mission here is not to give you some practical tips on how to deal with those individual insecurities because we're all different. My job is to give you the ultimate solution, from an absolute standpoint. Most people don't have that answer, because if they did, it would cut down on their insecurities significantly if not diminish it altogether.

Yes, insecurities are a nuisance and we all wish we were born perfectly symmetrical. Unfortunately, we're all nothing but luck. Even the person who seems physically perfect, symmetrical, and appealing to the eye is still nothing but luck.

The worst is when that luck is not recognised, and unfortunately, that's the world we live in. We live in a mixed world where we're not all fully enlightened enough to have a grasp of what life is. But if we all understood that this small world is all we have and we're one and not too strange apart, we can actually get along so well. The reality of this world is we're all embracing perfection and good looks, we're going with the desire for physical beauty and perfection, but we're being blind to reality. That's the issue.

We're all just going along with the flow and everything without first asking ourselves what this life is all about. Otherwise, we will continue to live a life we don't know and will not live morally right. we will end up mistreating each other, we won't value each other, and will continue to embrace and perpetuate the wrong ideas, e.g. a two-sided world and inequality. If we do not know the world we live in to the fullest degree we will continue to have conflicts in everything; in our definitions of everything and will never reach a balance.

The solution is not to go along with the world and start looking in the mirror and judging yourself and trying to fit in and wanting to be a supermodel and following ongoing trends and predefined paths. The solution is in self-mastery, self-discovery. Work on yourself. What is all of this, what's going on, what's life all about, what's this whole world about? Have sense, make sense of everything. That's when you'll know what to value and what to not value. That's when you'll know how to effectively approach life. You will know yourself fundamentally. That's how you'll know how to deal with life and your issues and even those the world call insecurities.

Education is the key to all our problems. A person who's less educated is less likely to see how related you're, and that will create conflict between the two; separation, discrimination, racism, hate, segregation, etc. So the ultimate answer is education is the key. Insecurities are a very big and concerning matter if you don't know life deeply. But once you do, your insecurities will be minimised greatly and even to the point it's diminished once you grasp what reality is all about properly. And that will require a lot of strength and courage and consistency in learning on your part.

If you want to get rid of your insecurities through this learning approach, then be willing to learn and develop yourself a lot and keep it up and it's not too long until you harness the power and liberation to walk out as a badass and a boss, to live your best life and live it too well. That's certainly possible. Your insecurities are only a thing when seen in a very narrow perspective, a very myopic perspective. But when seen in the absolute lens, all your problems including insecurities are gone. In fact, the absolute perspective is the one and only true and perfect way to approach life rather than living an inauthentic myopic life. Stop stressing yourself so much, cut it down, cut the stress down, and realise that you're in safe hands, and you're not alone. Physical beauty, symmetry, perfection, and being visually appealing is an illusion.

You see, there's only one reality. Fundamentally, everything boils down to one, we're all one. The only problem is the deceptive nature of reality in which it superficially appears two-sided, duality, material and immaterial, separated, with differences and distinctions. For instance, you might easily be convinced that everyone is absolutely unique and everything is just very separate from everything else. When in reality, everything is connected and is one. You see that illusion.

By that, I am trying to say that we're all one, despite the illusions we see, the distinctions, the dissimilarities, the unique physical appearances, etc. Let them not dupe you to think you're unlike anyone else. You see, proper education is what's missing, we should have all known about this. Most of the things we were taught doesn't really help us wholly deal with all the nitty-gritty of life. Because if we had proper education we wouldn't be having all these issues. That's to warn you that formal education is on a different agenda than you thought. We're all the same, so don't worry.
 

Secondly, we're all reality, and whatever reality is, we're too. Reality isn't anything special, reality is one and reality is nothing, which means we're all nothing including all your problems and insecurities. So please forget about your insecurities because they're an aspect of reality and reality is zero. Zero is your insecurities, stop putting them on the pedestal and giving them so much importance. Make them the very last thing you can think of. And even thinking about it is pointless because you'll be thinking about nothing the whole time. So why even bother? All of that which you label as beauty and perfection is not different to you, all is an illusion and nothing special. When you know this, you have nothing to worry about or compete with.

Thirdly, insecurities exist only when you compare yourself with others. That means comparing yourself with others is the same as creating two realities; separation, duality, conflict, discrimination, distinctions. And that's really bad for anyone and you because in essence you're deviating from reality and you're creating your own fantasies in your mind. Insecurities only occur when you judge and compare yourself with others. But remember in reality there are no others, and all you're seeing out there is an illusion, and nothing special, nothing better or worse than you. So judging and comparing yourself is pointless. You should not be doing that, you should be embracing oneness not a two-sided world and being preferential.
 

No, it is not normal or okay or real to act by default and be judging and comparing and being preferential, that alone is an illusion created by your mind but your mind isn't reality. Anything that is unreal shouldn't be embraced that goes for your fantasies and illusions created by your mind. In reality, there's nothing better or worse or different from one another, everything is one because there's only one reality, not two. So why are you trying to create separations? Because you're deluded by the superficial appearance of reality. You're focused more on the cover, not the fundamental and absolute picture. You're focused on judging everything on the cover and surface rather than deep within.

You see. Stop judging, you cannot judge in reality, how can one judge him or herself when there's only one of her or himself? Can one thing judge itself? No, so why are you judging and discriminating? Stop comparing yourself with anybody, be whatever you're and be blind to others judgements if you can't educate them. Save your energy because until others are educated, they'll never understand you, so the best thing is to focus on your own missions and core values.

Because of society; no one knows reality, everyone expects you to look a certain way, we live a life of fantasy where we believe we're supposed to look a particular way, and slimmer and more symmetrical, and perfect. This can only be true if we become blind to reality and become more fixated on expectations reality and common sense puts on us.

However, the truth is you do not need to look a certain way to be perfect. By nature or in reality rather than fantasy, you're perfect whatever your looks. If your worry is about your looks, then you're simply trying to fulfil society's desires and expectations; you want to look appealing in others eyes, so you can be accepted, tolerated, and fit in. That is of course an important thing to be able to fit in as it's linked with survival and getting yourself around the world and living your best life. You cannot live your best life if you can't get around and fit in society. It will just make your life a lot more difficult, and I do understand and sympathise, indeed.

But we also need to realise that the problem is not us, and although we could blame society or others for their lack of understanding, it's still not their fault to not understand you. There's basically no one to blame. So the solution remains; to find a way to win and get along. For instance, you could decide to ignore all the judgements and just focus on winning, or you could try to make some changes in your life that will help you effectively manoeuvre in life. But at the end of the day, you still need to win, otherwise, it's all pointless. So never sit back and give up. A solution has to be found, and one of that solution is education; understanding the irrelevance of it and reducing your worries about it, and focusing on what matters most in life or even finding out ways to become a better version of self.

Let's not live for society but for ourselves most importantly. Do not find yourself snapping photos to try and fit in and empower the images society is painting for everyone to fit in. Start a new trend instead where everyone is accepted and is perfect as they're. Those social media photos where everyone wants to look perfect is a danger to society because now we all begin to compete or fight to meet and maintain that unattainable and unreal standard.

Ask yourself, why do you need to please or e validated for those social media posts? Do you do it just to fit in or you actually benefit from those, like does your rent get paid, do you earn anything from it, does it help you grow your fanbase so you can later on utilise, or you just want to paint a particular image and still end up gaining nothing from it in the hopes you'll one day become so popular and everyone will love you?
 

Stop pleasing people, you don't need anyone’s attention unless that attention converts to a transaction where it will help you survive and live your life to the fullest. So, don't live for others but for yourself. Do what's humanly and ethically possible to get what you want plus survival, and the rest is irrelevant anyway. People can come into your world if they align with it but do not go your way into fitting in a world that doesn't recognise you as special, valuable, and perfect like the rest of people. You do not need to fit in with the reality society and others have painted for everyone. Create and live your own true world where happiness exists, and you can be happy alone without the need of others.
 

The only thing that matters in life is building your life and a perfect world for yourself alone. Make your world attractive for you and those who are willing to listen to your side of the story and be educated. Remember that if your imperfection was what was popular, that imperfection or what you call insecurity would be the norm, right? You would worry at all because you know that's what reality is. So reality is nothing but relative to what we choose it to be. The reality everyone knows of is one defined by society through popularity. Do not fall for that fake reality. Besides that popular reality is rapidly changing as the time comes. One way this is happening, is here, for instance. You learning about the truth will make you shift your efforts and core values.

Accepting that we're all an illusion and are all the same is enough to be free and liberated. Secondly, accepting reality as it comes. Thirdly, improve your life everywhere and be the best version of yourself. Also, own your life and be self-sustained and independent that you don't need to please others for all your livelihood and wellbeing.

Then u can have your own world away from the judgemental and unenlightened world. That’s a win. However if u must require some physical transformation that could be necessary and vital for your livelihood, then look into it only because it’s fundamental and a must rather than a luxury. However, whatever you choose to do, remember that you still have nothing to lose. But do have the peace that you're not different, you're not the labels being associated with you, and those labels don't exist and language doesn't exist even what they refer to doesn't exist and is a mere illusion. You're not cursed, you're not different, you're not alone, and you’re like everyone else.

But do not seek people’s validations, just have the knowledge yourself and focus on what makes you happy; your purpose, missions, and creating your world, and only associating with people who empower and understands life. Not the blind and uneducated people. Do not try to educate and change those not willing to learn, only those who're eager to understand life. But another thing to remember is no one will want to listen to you unless you have the power that makes them want to willingly want to listen and pay attention. That power is your knowledge and your fruits in life. Everyone is looking for that power; knowledge and fruits or material power. So go and get your powers first and everyone will listen to you. But most importantly do not waste your efforts on the wrong people, just focus on yourself because it is very hard to get someone to listen to you. Do not lose yourself in the event.

 Please anyone other than yourself or your customers and people who align with you. Those are the only people that bring value to you, the rest are trash. The eyes, the cameras, the mirrors that see you, the society, etc. are nothing but an illusion, even your own eyes, so do not let any of that including judgements move you even a little. The power is in you, others can only have the power u give and allow them to have. But u can take that power away with the truth you already have i.e. reality. Just be an expert in life and the rest is history.

Be able to defend yourself invalidate all irrelevant perspectives that could confront you to humiliate, remember those people are uneducated so you can't blame them or even yourself. You're actually perfect just like anyone else, no one is better or worse than you. Do not let the little pathetic imperfection on you shake your life so much. Talk to a medical expert if you need further help.

Do not let others put you off. It’s harder for them to see what doesn't concern them, plus most people are less educated, so they lack the eyes and perspectives to see life fully. Be pitiful and sorry that they're unsuccessful and undeveloped and if possible, help them see properly. But u must always defend yourself, otherwise, you can seriously be hurt if you don't know your stuff.
 
 Everyone is an illusion and fake, regardless of their looks, claims, etc. So why try to act real when there’s no real in reality...everything is illusion and fake, no matter what the world portrays. Just acknowledge this and have the power within and have the courage and confidence to walk straight and tall, and go achieve all your missions. Don't allow others opinions to push you a tiny bit. Because you're perfect. If there's A label to hold dear, is perfection. You're perfect. Not beautiful, not ugly, not this and that. But perfect. Stop using those silly and negative and meaningless titles on you to discriminate against people. Perfection is what reality is and what everyone and everything is.

So equally be illusory like everyone, don't limit yourself by thinking you can't achieve that which others with looks achieve. If there's such thing as beauty, which am sure there isn't, then you can get it too because it's the same illusion we're all playing with. So go out there and be playful. Do not take the notion "be real and authentic" the wrong way. It doesn't mean go and be a pleaser and show people your natural true self, nope, they lied to you. Realise this is a fake world, and if you go your way trying to show confidence by displaying anything out there that may come back at you.

Yes, it doesn't matter, but being real doesn't mean you shouldn't be cautious and tactical in everything. Be wise and open-minded. What you want to do in life is take what you want; do all that's humanly possible to ethically and legally take what you want. It doesn't matter how you do it. The worst is if you begin pleasing people and trying to show them the side of the world they don't like. That can still work being true in your own skin, but it's not necessary. If you feel like you don't have to show your insecurities to the world, you shouldn't do it. There are many ways to get what you want, there's many goals, many roads to get to the same destiny. Even that look is still achievable in a different way, so do explore. But don't limit yourself.

Being real means being reality, which also means not limiting yourself and being myopic and thinking of one solution. Think of many solutions, and don't narrow yourself to small thinking. The world is too big, and there's a lot of greatness in this world. You can only suffer when you limit yourself and start thinking narrowly.

At the end of the day, nothing matters. We all don't matter, all our efforts and judgments, and worries, and insecurities, and little problems, don't exist and don't matter. So please do not stress yourself so much. Focus on your education and growth and building an exceptional life. When you do that, then you can look into the next goal. Remember that personal development is ongoing and is not limited to a few objectives.

Personal development is all-encompassing and involves all the changes you want to make in your life. So as long as what you're doing is to change you and make you better, it's all good. So keep up with the excellent work, keep learning, keep self-improving, and keep being happy and do not stress over petty little issues that don't matter. Focus on what really matters and everything will be great. Well done.

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The main point of this great guide was as follow:

There's no such thing as insecurities in the first pace; insecurities are only there due to conflicting perspectives of others or the popular ideas and perspective the world or society is perpetuating. But if you put those idea and those popular, irrelevant, laughable, common sense, and fantasies behind, you can then focus on truth, which is perfection; happiness will truly flow in your heart. The truth is you're perfect, and as long as you know this, you have the power and trying to conform to please others expectations is only giving your powers aways to them. And that's not good. But you can do whatever you want in order to wield whatever you desire in life. Everything has it's own costs, but what I would not recommend you to do is to get hurt by others opinions of you.

Live life abundantly knowing you're totally perfect and there's actually nothing wrong with you. And the fact that others eyes and in fact including that of yours is nothing but an illusion. At the end of the day, nothing matters. We all don't matter, all our efforts and judgments, and worries, and insecurities, and little problems, don't exist and don't matter. So please do not stress yourself so much. Focus on your education and growth and building an exceptional life. When you do that, then you can look into the next goal. Remember that personal development is ongoing and is not limited to a few objectives.

Congratulations!

Well done, you've made it once again; another one in the bag, a great achievement. Definitely, something to be proud of for it's not so easy. You've achieved something most people don't and will never have. So, be grateful and realise your blessings, and pat yourself on the back; reading alone is in itself a success.

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