Loneliness Defeated

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Why Should we eviscerate loneliness, indeed?

02: What is loneliness?

03: How to deal with loneliness.

04: What's life all about?

05: 10 Reasons to not be afraid/lonely

06: Conclusion (Wrapping Up)

07. Summary

08: Conclusion

09: Author

010: Other info

Mastering loneliness and unnecessary fears & anxieties in life is the ultimate key to your freedom, peace, success, and happiness.

Loneliness remains a prevalent issue in most people; therefore conquering and eliminating its essence is vital for your overall greatness. Become free, peaceful, worry-free, stress-free, and be more liberated from such unnecessary fears. The solution is to articulate the issue deep down from its roots and doing it with high precision. Hence this guides is vital and is the ultimate antidote for your loneliness and most of the fears and anxieties you experience in life. Our self-help approach is fundamental and far-reaching; this guide doesn't only deal with isolation and being alone. But also encapsulates many emotions, issues, subjects, and anxieties, and it aims to make us wholly tremendous and successful in every aspect of our lives. It's about an all-encompassing refinery and greatness, though loneliness and hopelessness is our initial focus.

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Unhappiness, anxieties, and fears are a nuisance and a significant concern to our health and wellbeing. Mastering all of these issues is key to your peace, wellbeing, success, and happiness in life. Hence we're to tackle the essence of these problems and eventually subdue them all to conquer.

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Mastering loneliness and unnecessary fears & anxieties in life is the ultimate key to your freedom, peace, happiness, success, and general wellbeing.

You don't want to live a life of unnecessary anxieties, fears, and emotions. Mastering loneliness and other apprehensions and issues in life will cut down on what you have to worry about and prevent you from living a wavering life of mayhem. You do not want to live a life of fear, deception, misconception, lies, and uncertainty. That's precisely the opposite of successful-living. Successful living is about having total enlightenment; being wholly aware of life because that's the solid foundation that you base yourself and your endeavours on. Without fully knowing life, confusion kicks in since you can't effectively distinguish between things. You'll struggle to differentiate between what's valuable and less valuable. So it's imperative to learn and refine your whole life to ensure accuracy and complete certainty in every subject and every aspect of your life. It's the mission of wholly refining your life and genuinely making sense of everything and doing it with integrity and precision. That's the mission we're pursuing here, and this one is just one or few aspects out of the whole big picture; i.e. to become genuinely successful and significant in life.

First of all, let's define confidence.

It's the sad, discontented, unhappy emotion of feeling alone, isolated, in solitude, friendless, having no company, and even rejections, and separations. Being single; without a partner, being reclusive and alone, having no one to talk to or even to discuss private and deep concerning matters with and vent. You get the picture? Loneliness can also be a feeling of despair, not having hope, being depressed, having low-spirit, and feeling gloomy.

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Our self-help approach is fundamental and far-reaching; hence, this guide isn't merely dealing with the feeling of being isolated and alone only. It's about an all-encompassing refinery and greatness, though loneliness and hopelessness is our initial focus.

You see as we've already mentioned above. Most of our issues stem from not fully discerning reality's fundamental nature and not consistently being conscious of it.

Most of us do not fully comprehend what life is all about; most of us are just ordinary living apes who're not conscious enough and never curious enough to seek an absolute understanding of life. So we tend to focus more and primarily on the simpler things in life, such as survival, making a living, entertainment, making friendships and staying around family. And even though we study, our school systems are not adequately designed to help us make more significant distinctions in life, and focus on what makes us individually tremendous and successful.

We're not enlightened enough, and so to disembowel and destroy loneliness, the solution is to start learning about life. We do that by being extremely curious about everything and scrutinising everything in the search for truth. The mission is to discern everything with absolute precision. That's what True-success and I do; redefining everything to bring real clarity; success and greatness.

It's called personal development; self-improvement; learning; holistic learning, learning from a fundamental standpoint. It's about covering a broad scope of subjects and topics, making a greater distinction in every issue. If you have a weakness in a particular matter, of course, that subject will continue to be a problem until you master it. Similarly, that's how loneliness is an issue to most of us because we're yet to conquer it. It's simple, know what life is all about; comprehend what life is all about, and as a result, you'll have the total power to orient your life effectively and enjoy the best out of life.

There's nothing to fear in life, but you must learn how that's the case; how fear is invalid, as that's the only way to crashing most of your manageable issues. The key is to understand life fully. So let's do that below.

Life is not as special as most people think, or as most of us have been indoctrinated by the world to believe; education, parents, religion, and society in general.

You see, power is in exploring the world yourself; contacting independent research and observation, rather than being indoctrinated to believe in whatever concept that's assumed to be accurate. Power is not adhering to whatever philosophy appears real; it's actually about scrutinising ideas, finding clarity, and making real sense of things before accepting them.

So you and I must start observing and discerning life for ourselves. Let's begin by reevaluating our perspectives, mindsets, beliefs, and ideas about life. Let's not be superficial and judge everything by the cover, but instead, go deep down into the main content.

Based on my perspective and profundity level, life is nothing special; life is zero; nothing matters as much we're fast to believe. Life is nothing; the world is nothing; everything is just nothing. Even the loneliness you're worried about is just nothing, and it doesn't matter. There's absolutely nothing to worry about; there's nothing in nature to be afraid of, nothing mysterious or a secret about life. Life is not strange or weird, it's just an illusion, it just totally nothing; but that's when you dive deep in and see it in the absolute sense. But if you continue to judge life by the cover, it will always remain mysterious, concrete, and tangible, when in fact it's merely an illusion.

We're continually taught that life is too complex to understand, but that's precisely not right. Life is understandable, and it's simpler than most people think. Being afraid of life, feeling alone, etc., is just the same as being fearful of zero; being afraid of nothing. In conclusion, all that exists is zero, and nothing can change that; life boils down to zero, nothing more nothing less. That's also to say existence, everything you know of, including the loneliness, and the things you're afraid of are all nothing but zero, and nothing special. So don't be scared or worried about anything, be free and run your life freely with no restrictions and limitations.

1. Life is nothing:

There's absolutely nothing to fear or lose in life. Nothing matters whether you like it or not. Life is zero.

2. You're not lonely.

Since life doesn't matter. There's no such a thing as lonely, therefore.

3. There's no you.

There's no you if life is zero and nothing, and doesn't matter. We could also conclude that you don't matter, you don't exist, there's no unique you. Not in a pessimistic way, though. I am saying the individualistic subjective self that you associate yourself with doesn't actually exist. You're nothing special; you're no better than a leaf or a grain of sand, so stop putting yourself on the pedestal and romanticising and aggrandising yourself.

4. You were born alone and will die alone:

Like it or not, loneliness is all there is, which still means nothing. Either way, you're still not alone, and you must stop entertaining the thought that "alone" is even something. Because it's nothing; complete zero.

5. The term loneliness is relative to language:

Language and all of the other differences and distinctions in life is relative and not absolute. As we've already discussed previously, the absolute or totality is zero and nothing. So, anything other than zero must be an illusion that's relative to us or our perception; to the importance or value, we give it. In other words, we're the ones that create that illusion of loneliness, but it doesn't inherently exist in nature or in the absolute sense. To destroy it, we must therefore simply be aware that there's no such thing as being lonely. Besides, if reality or existence is nothing, how can loneliness or anything be something? Loneliness is invalid; we've just proven it right there.

Therefore, you must not hold it as a concept in your mind. It would be best if you were indifferent with that term. Also, without understanding what language is, it could hinder how you discern life because language creates an unrealistic world, contrary to reality which is supposed to be a zero. For instance, consider I called you ugly. If you don't how meaningless that is, you'd be screwed, wouldn't you?. Because let's be honest, what does anything mean? It means zero. Now that you know this, you have all the power to surpass most of your issues. You can decide to keep silent or even be playful with life. You see how interesting that is. There's nothing to lose. Now that's what language, discrimination, duality, is; the opposite of reality; one and zero. There's no such thing as being alone; it's only a concept that one can entertain. The solution? Refrain from engaging the thought of being lonely; you're not lonely, and you do not need company to be happy and fulfilled.

6. Ask yourself; why do you need company?

Why can't you just be by yourself? What do you need in others that you can't do yourself? You're actually self-sufficient. The most important thing in life is you, followed by your most critical missions, such as building an extraordinary life for yourself and having some freedom. That's the first critical mission, and the rest are secondary and irrelevant. If you're over there crying and mourning that you're alone, then you have some serious problem, because alone is all there is. But you need to go back to our previous points where we say there's no such a thing as alone. So either way, you're just beating yourself.

You do not need anyone, work on yourself, and build your life first. That's the self-love, right there. Why are you not happy, fulfilled, content by yourself? Because the need for others into your life is a sign of not being self-dependent, self-sustained, self-fulfilled or cultivated. If you have no aims and ambitions in life; no purpose, no work, no mission, is the sign of not being developed, and hence you're looking for your fulfilment and happiness from others company; external sources. But a successful person never complains about loneliness, because he or she knows there's no such a thing. Leave that for the kids who don't know the subject properly or those with special needs. A fully functioning adult needs to understand every subject and be self-reliant and claim full responsibility for their life and destiny.

There is so much work to do in life to feel lonely or be bored. Life is not about chilling and hugging friends and having sex, romanticising with sexual partners, etc. It's about sorting your life, building your life, organising it and not getting lost in societal and cultural conditioning where you're expected to act a certain way and be gregarious. You do not need to be running around with friends and doing pointless stuff. Invest all of that time in your greatness. Read books, refine yourself, start building something great, start a business, exercise, and do something that betters your life. So that's the goal and purpose; pursue self-growth and work on yourself; a lifelong purpose for you to follow. I am telling you, you do not need a single person to fill happy. All that matters is you, then your fundamental missions, followed by the less important missions. And should people come into your life, cut that friendship out when they sabotage and interfere with you and your vital missions; which is the most crucial thing in life.

What do you need others for? People only meet for business, cooperation, collaboration. Even a relationship between a man and a woman is about business, two people doing business together, but that relationship can still be broken and replaced. But we must realise how it's okay and normal to do your business alone, because alone is all there is; you're not always going to have people around you, sometimes you, is all there is to run the show.

No-strings-attached, do not be overly attached to a relationship or companionship that you forget that indifference or loneliness is all that exists. We frequently forget the true nature of reality and get lost in earthly worldviews. Embrace that which you don't like, so to succeed. You're not alone even if you think you're alone. Check previous points where we say loneliness doesn't exist. So you're not alone or single, etc., and nothing to be afraid or scared of.

7. You only fear what you don't know:

You also eliminate all uncertainties and fears when you know existence enough. So self or world-master is vital for your total peace and calm in life. Like now that you know life is not that special and is merely zero, you learn not to take everything so seriously and give significant value to things.

8. Are you afraid that you cannot manage on your own?

Imagine an incidence where you're just by yourself, and there's no other help around. The thing is you'll always fight for your life alone even when people are around you. Everyone is alone regardless of company. So it's a good idea to embrace loneliness, and be okay with it. It's like "no pain no gain", you can not conquer something you do not embrace and challenge. However, by embracing, I am not trying to give loneliness some substance or validate its existence; I am just saying you should see its irrelevance, and know that there's no such a thing as loneliness. And that you should be fully fine when alone, and never expect something different from it; be indifferent.

9. The most extraordinary people are calm and indifferent.

They never worry about most things in life; they're prepared for whatever happens. And indeed, loneliness isn't a thing to them. Some people may fear being alone due to the potential dangers one might find themselves in whilst alone. But successful people rarely fear that much because they're ready for whatever, but also they're very calculated in most of their moves. That's the type of life you also want to adopt. But that comes with hard work and rigorous and extensive personal development activity. So, refine yourself, grow yourself, and organise your life to become ready for whatever happens in life, and there will be no need to feel so alone. In fact, when your life is extraordinary, that's when you have the freedom and time to be surrounded by others and enjoy your successes together.

10. You're not alone:

You might only be thinking about your own loneliness and without consideration of others. There's a lot of people like you who're alone right now. But considering all the points we've covered above, it still makes no difference when you're alone or not. You're still not alone, regardless. Yes, we live in the same world, planet, states, cities, and even houses, but everyone is independent of one another. There's a lot of people right now living by themselves alone in their own apartments. So there's really nothing special about being alone or even being single. One who's earnestly striving for companionship perhaps lacks purpose in their life. If that's you, you may have to reevaluate your life and find something to do in life, something you love and can be proud of. Otherwise, running around and complaining about being alone and having no friends or partners will not yield any greatness and will not secure your future.

Lastly, you also have to be careful with an unnecessary company, friendship, meaningless love, and poor relationships. They say every good thing has a bad side to it, which is undoubtedly true. Whilst having friends and lovers, etc., is fun, it also robs you from focusing on yourself and mission. Companionship may not be the solution to your real needs in life, such as your purpose and self-growth. You do not really need companionship to self-improve and build a marvellous life for yourself. So any friendship or relationship needs to be value-focused, so it's not there to sabotage your success and growth.

The most remarkable people are married to their purposes and missions because that gives them real fulfilment. It's the true definition of self-love and self-reliance; building their lives, personal development, learning, and conquering their objectives.

You see, it's very simple. Not comprehensively knowing what loneliness is, as a subject, can cause significant damage to your life.

I've seen people run from independence, fear self-reliance, accountability, owning a home, staying single, living in confinement, being isolated, having no friends, etc. Loneliness is something concrete and is a disease if not tackled, and that's why I had to beat it down for us all. And as we've already mentioned, the right knowledge is the right power. When you genuinely know the nature of reality, what life is all about, what life is, you have the absolute power to determine what to worry and not worry about. You have the power to choose your objectives and path in life, rather than walk a predefined path. However, without self-mastery, greatness can also never be established.

Therefore, the mission is fundamentally self-cultivation first; work on becoming successful, incorporating the right concepts, covering all the subjects you experience weakness in, and integrating a truly successful worldview and mindset. And your life will never be the same again. Just focus on your purposes; growing yourself, taking care of yourself, learning, improving your quality of life, and doing your most rewarding work (passion), and generally building a remarkable life. That's what life's all about.

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The main point of this great guide was as follow:

Most of our life issues, including unnecessary anxieties, fears, unhappiness, etc., result from not being fully accomplished in our understanding of the world. Therefore, the answer is straightforward; we must devote our lives to accurately understands life and integrating a successful mindset. We must also focus on our critical purposes and missions rather than pointless things. That's what greatness is all about. Loneliness doesn't exist, so let go of the concept.

Authenticity when it comes to learning, making sense of the world and self-improvement is vital if you genuinely want to be wholly successful in your life and endeavours. True-success is about being honest, holistic and thorough learning. Every subject needs to be redefined; your entire life needs to be redefined and reevaluated. Hence you must never ignore the work we're doing, take them lightly, or judge them by the cover. Very critical for your greatness.

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