Rich Wolf

Mar 26, 20215 min

Do Not Take Life Personally: here's how, why, and solution.

Updated: Mar 28, 2021

Do Not Take Life Personally.

Contents

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Do not take life personally

02: Summary

03: Conclusion

04: Author

05: Other info

INTRODUCTION

Do Not Take Life Personally. There are several dangers of approaching life as though it's all about you, as though this is you as if there's something so special about you and you're meant to be perfect in some sort of ways. This guide will help you put behind some of this problem and minimise your chaos and suffering.

Taking life personally is very very dangerous to your well-being, health, happiness, freedom, etc. And it limits you from being all you can be and ultimately reaching your fullest potential in life. So now you know how crucial it is to discuss it and eliminate it entirely.


1. Do Not Take Life Personally

Life is not about you, life is not about anything, and there's no one to blame for it. So do not blame yourself, your parents, society, friends, etc. Just understand how there's no one to blame for everything, and not even you, and that will help you focus on what's most important in life i.e. experiencing life, working and building things, being valuable, making yourself proud, and creating and living your best life either by yourself and or the right people who're very understanding of reality and life.

It is not a surprise that we're constantly blaming ourselves. Blaming ourselves for failure, rejections, flaws, physical imperfections, losses, etc. Whilst it's easy to blame ourselves, it's equally important to be conscious of reality and knowing that it's not about us. There's nothing personal about life. Life is not a personal thing; reality and the world aren't personal. I am also thinking this could help in the event of trying to scale-up as a business person or an entrepreneur too. Sometimes we can hold things we love personal instead of letting go and allow everyone to be involved and do something for the entire world. For instance, when you have the opportunity to expand your business ideas, it can be a tough battle trying to let go and expanding. Another example is not trying to let go of people who don't want to be in your life.

It is time we become conscious of not taking things personally because it will save us from a lot of troubles and chaos. Live life knowing that it's not about you, know that you're irrelevant in the picture and life is just let life flows. Be very open-minded and avoid unnecessary suffering just because you're taking the blames personal into yourself or others. Sometimes there's nothing you can do about certain circumstances and you just have to think big and realise life is just hard for everyone.

Sometimes you will find yourself in danger resulting from an accident of some sort. It's very easy to blame yourself or others in these situations, but if you think deep, you may realise that there's no one to blame about most things and that we can only try our best to grow the world, but even after that there's no guarantee for perfection.

Yes, we're striving for perfection because we're taking our lives personal most of the time, but it's key to realise that perfection is an illusion and some things just got to go. We need to hold ourselves as though we're so special. We, humans, are very famous for this. We believe deep down that we're something so special; we put ourselves way up on the pedestal, and that's why we're very vulnerable to suffering because we expect perfection and less pain and we just expect the world to favour us. But the world doesn't do favouritism because the world is not a personal entity either. It's so easy to blame others for your failure without knowing that even those you're blaming have no one to blame and we all can't blame anything. There's no source to blame. So you blaming others for your lack of success, etc., sometimes is ignorance. Just try your best and put in the work and strive for that which you desire rather than blaming others or yourself.

Do not take death, pain, etc., personal. Just ignore all of those things and keep moving. You being alive alone is suffering; the world itself is pain and there's no escape from it. The only medicine is realising this and being prepared to take what you can and seeing the irrelevance in it. Besides all those sufferings and failures, and even rejections are all nothing; they're all zero and pointless. There's no distinction between failure and winning, all is one. So when you fail or get rejected, know that it's no different to winning. The best solution is also in being indifferent to everything and just focus on your purpose.

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02. Summary

The main point of this great guide was as follow:

Do not take things personally in life, be relieved of the fact that life is not personal, it's not you, it's not about you. Do not be mislead by your name or identity and origins and this and that. Do not put yourself way up on the pedestal and acknowledge how you're not that special just like everyone and that we're all trying our best. You're not different to any other person, they're just like you whether they're aware of it or not.

03. Conclusion

Congratulations!

Well done, you've made it once again; another one in the bag, an outstanding achievement. Definitely, something to be proud of for it's not so easy. You've achieved something most people don't and will never have. So, be grateful and realise your blessings, and pat yourself on the back; reading alone is in itself a success.

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About the Author

Rich Wolf is a formidable and wholly accomplished radical thinking philosopher of all time. Ann autodidactic polymath with a wide array of expertise in several fields. He is also the founder of True Success™ and several other business ventures.


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