Rich Wolf

Mar 21, 202112 min

Do not normalise A toxic and abusive relationship (here's how, why, & solution).

Updated: Mar 27, 2021

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Contents

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTERS

01: Do not normalise a toxic and abusive relationship

02: Summary

03: Conclusion

04: Author

05: Other info

INTRODUCTION

Do not normalise a toxic and abusive relationship. Do not fall for the wrong partner, do not accept mediocrity, do not normalise the wrong truth, do not normalise the wrong relationships, do not normalise the wrong philosophies, success, and ideas. Save yourself including the world from all the wrong and bad ideas.

This guide is for both men and women, to learn and elevate themselves from perpetuating the wrong ideas to changing themselves into ideal partners and individuals. We're supposed to be success and growth-oriented only, and the rest is complete trash. The guide is here to educate women as well as men to stay away from abusive relationships. we're all meant to strive for excellence instead of embracing the wrong ideas. We're all here to redefine our lives, our definitions, meaning, and the world at large. We need to live for our individual successes and that of the world at large. Let's not condone and educate our societies to value the wrong ideas and abuse and toxicity. This guide will help you refocus your energy onto what matters most in life and in a relationship. Together, we can recreate a better life for ourselves and also change the world by doing it. Let's change the world by changing ourselves and how we approach life. Let's not be complacent with archaic and flawed ways of life.


01.Do not normalise a toxic and abusive relationship

We live in a predominantly uneducated world, and in that world, it's so easy to mistakenly normalise the wrong ideas because we lack the depth and distinction to properly discriminate between what's right and wrong. We live in a divided world where the uneducated world normalises the wrong truth, and punitive conditions and abuse.

There's a very big distinction between an educated mind and that which is less educated. Of the two groups above; educated and uneducated, their definitions of most things will differ greatly. For example, how I would define something will differ significantly from another person or let's say someone who's not at my level of education. Using that principle, and the fact that we live in a majorly uneducated world, you can see how it's so easy for us to live and normalise the wrong truth, ideas and even corruption, abuse, and crimes. Not to mention, racism is also the wrong idea that shouldn't exist, and the fact that it exists shows how far we're from total enlightenment. These are some of the reasons why I thought we must create change, beginning with our personal lives and spreading the good truth out into society and the world. In life, we're meant to be fighting for real truth, excellence, clarity, the right definitions, of everything. We're supposed to redefine our lives and everything. Reshaping yourself entails reshaping the whole of the world because you're an aspect of the world.

Look at yourself as an individual, you're living in an imperfect world that wouldn't even notice or care if you existed. Now ask yourself; what do I really want out of life? Is it a toxic, abusive, and irresponsible life or I am here to strive for excellence everywhere? And if it is excellence that you're meant to strive for every day, then why normalise the wrong things, ideas, behaviours, and abuse? Why participate in the wrong ideas and associate them with poor behaviours and relationships? The answer is, you're doing that because, just as the abusive partners and associates, you're neither enlightened nor aware of what you're supporting and promoting. In other words, you are less educated just as the corrupt people and even the abusive partners and friends you associate with. It is, therefore, the time to change.

I have written this guide to help you shift your life from abusive and toxic relationships, vibes, friendship, society, family, etc. Because what you want out of life isn't toxicity and the wrong truth. What you want out of life is to shine, elevate, excel, and experience the best of life. A tree doesn't exist to live in poor conditions, it grows to look for nutrients and push for success, excellence, and to bear great fruits. You, on the other hand, are normalising the wrong ideas and pretending to be happy ina toxic and abusive relationship and bad friends. You don't even seem to love yourself, you're just living for others and being their slave just because they claim they love you or are your friends and family and associates. Do not tolerate slavery towards you or others. The truth is you do not need anyone, especially the people who're going to sabotage your growth.

You're here to grow and not to settle in an unfulfilling relationship that you normalise as normal when it's not normal. It is time to reevaluate your life and approach; change your approach to life and do not take life lightly as if you're nothing special. Of course, if you're a low-valued individual you will have lower standards that's why you're more likely to find yourself in such abusive situations too, as well as perpetuating the wrong ideas and truth. You were not born to be in a relationship with anyone, therefore, an abusive relationship isn't something to even think of or be a part of. Walk away as quickly as possible. In fact, if you look at it properly, you don't need anything relationship. But we do go in them to maximise our greatness as well as to create and preserve life. But that doesn't mean you necessarily have to be in one. So a bad relationship is just a no, no, unless you're looking for trouble yourself. It's easy to abuse your life like that when you don't know what's right for you and how precious you're. Do not lose yourself for anything less than excellent.

You see, most people believe life is a game, which tells them, they should be reckless in how they approach life. This is why you will find most people not taking their lives seriously; at a very young age, you're focused on relationships when you should have been studying and developing your life. You will hear every now and then that women are attracted to bad boys; and those bad boys are basically defined as player, narcissistic, and egocentric men. Some will be deliberately chosen to be attracted to an ex-felon, apparently because they possess a certain trait that's quite irresistible. I mean what sort of life is this? You forget the most important thing in life and throw your life away to some random individual who absolutely has nothing going on, and is deranged and demented. You're rooting for sick people and you mistake them for healthy, great, and successful people? The problem is with you, and hence you must rework your life. Uneducated people are continually approaching life in very pathetic and ludicrous ways. But all of that is a result of lacking true meaning, orientation, truth, purpose, and path. This is why I am continually emphasising the search for real truth rather than settling for bad ideas, common sense, and society's ideas and trends.

DO NOT NORMALISE ABUSIVE AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.

You see, no one is responsible for your decisions and choices, but it's still encumbered on you to do yourself a favour and approach life in a way that's conducive. In that case, you're to realise that your life is yours and you're not meant to live it for anyone else. You're not here to be a slave to anyone other than yourself.

You're unhappy because you don't know what real happiness is, or the fact that you're naturally a self-sustained individual, and that happiness and contentment is found in you; is a result of education and being fully enlightened and fulfilled with true knowledge. It's time we don't mistake true happiness with relationships and irrelevant ideas being perpetuated in society. Everyone seems to be running after a relationship and focusing on sex, friends, and partnerships. When you should principally be looking for yourself first because that's what matters, after all. The self or alone is all there is and what matters, and there's nothing quite as powerful as the self and being alone. In fact, alone is the true definition of happiness. The rest are irrelevant things; they're a headache, pain, suffering, conflicts, and unhappiness. A relationship especially is one of those irrelevant things you shouldn't run for. Relationships are costly and are a luxury you're meant to have out of choice one day when you're ready. But for most people, they'd rather go by the flow and not wait until they have properly graduated in their lives by self-mastering and developing every aspect of their lives prior to running after the luxuries and irrelevant things. And now that they've succeeded in ruining their lives, that's when they're hit with the realisation that they had the whole thing wrong.

So be warned, if you do find yourself in an abusive relationship, if you do find yourself suffering in any sort of partnership, run and stay alone, and reevaluate your life, and find a better partner later on in the future. Find someone with whom you can have harmony and build a better life together. Do not normalise abuse and a toxic life. I repeat, do not normalise an abusive relationship and a toxic life. Should you normalise such a type of life, you will fully be responsible for the outcomes. You will pay the price for deliberate and even accidental choices make. You're, therefore, to blame no one other than yourself, and that will be for not approaching life correctly. You will suffer the pain and pay the cost for every decision you make; make the right decisions and you will live a great life, make the wrong decisions, and you will suffer. It's your life, it's your choice.

But be warned, do not normalise the wrong ideas and take life and your life lightly and as a joke. And if you're going to normalise abuse, then only do it for yourself not others. So, there you have it. No matter the abuse, try your best to find the right help and do it unapologetically and without fear. Do yourself a favour and save yourself. You're doing all of this for yourself because you're meant to live for yourself rather than others. You're not in this society to please a single person other than yourself. Personally, I would feel ashamed of myself If I found myself pleasing and living for others.

You do not need some bad boy, gangster, ex-felon, some narcissistic and egomaniac partner (man or woman or friends). You do not need to associate with crimes, abuse, and anything that isn't success and greatness. You do not need to fulfil instant gratification, and you can abstain from sex and irrelevant emotions until you're fully cultivated, and have found the right partner to build and share your lives with. Do not fall for the wrong ideas, narratives, and truth. The world we live in isn't as perfect as it may seem; it's so delusional and will make you believe the wrong concepts. Be very wise, educate yourself, and remain extremely open-minded if you truly want to reap greatness out of life.

The wrong partner is a danger to your life, destiny, and future. Literally, do not mess around with life. Dare to pursue the wrong ideas, and that will become your destiny; that's what you will reap in life. Associate with the wrong people, and that's how you will end up. All I can ask you to do is be extra, extra careful in how you approach life. Because a single slip is a catastrophic blow to your future and destiny. And sometimes living recklessly can take your life away, and soon you have lost your entire self. The wrong partner, your common sense, and society are the three things convincing you to root for the bad ways of life. You're your own killer. But to ensure you don't kill yourself, you must work on yourself and master how to not kill yourself. You're going to pay the price; the sacrifice for all your actions. So as said, do your best not to mess with life and the wrong people. Do not make decisions out of fear, do not kiss peoples tails, do not please anyone, and do not live for others. If you can't find the right person to partner with, sit back, focus on yourself and your education and purpose and resume the search for a partner when you're ready. Stay alone as that's where happiness is.

Do not feel like you're missing out and end up rushing into things and end up landing on the wrong hands. Save yourself, live for yourself, make every decision for yourself, partner with others for yourself, everything should benefit you too. Acknowledge that partnership is involvement and both parties are meant to benefit. You're all meant to grow and enjoy life; seek for the higher life and luxuries, and abundance. You're not born to be in a tyrannical relationship and accept bad ideas that go against your greatness. You're not a slave, you're not a sexual material whom one can just piss on and treat anyhow. You're very special to yourself, and if you treat yourself that way, everyone will give you the respect that you deserve. Do not joke around with men (Or abusive women), because most men have it wrong; they'll easily believe they're entitled and are above women and that women are meant to somehow serve them and meet their desires. If you're a woman, do not put yourself under any man. Take your life into your own hands and become your own boss. Educate yourself and do not live by cultural and societal conditioning where you were educated to obey men and be under them. You're a human being and an individual just like anyone else. You have your own rights. If you cannot be treated equally or not be respected as an individual, walk out of any partnership and form a new partnership or create your own life alone.

Do not give your power away and let the world walk all over you. Because if you let yourself go and be used, it's you to suffer and pay the forfeit. So, do not joke around in this world. Life is not a joke. You get what you ask for, you get what you associate with; run away from bad truth and ideas. You should only be spending more time alone than with others because alone is where a cultivated life and a powerful foundation derives and is created. And should you want to spend more time with others, make sure you have a lot in common; share the same success values; be with someone who's also rooting for genuine greatness rather than mediocrity. Well done, keep up the excellent work.

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02. Summary

The main point of this guide was as follow:

The world is not a place to mess with, you're not here to mess with anybody. You're not here to stay in an abusive and toxic relationship. In fact, you do not need a relationship. What you need is you. But if there's someone to unite with who's going to make your life better and you share a lot of values in common, you both want success and growth, then why not give it a shot. But even if you're ina relationship, do not feel like you've lost your freedom and ability to move on with your own life. Your destiny in life is to strive for excellence, not mediocrity and pathetic life. Greatness is what to strive for, everything else goes in the trash can. So, there you have it. Remove yourself from bad ideas, and stop normalising abusive and toxic relationships, ideas, and truth. Together, let's help redefine and create a better world and future for us all.

03. Conclusion

Congratulations!

Well done, you've made it once again; another one in the bag, a great achievement. Definitely, something to be proud of, for it's not so easy. You've achieved something most people don't and will never have. So, be grateful and realise your blessings, and pat yourself on the back; reading alone is in itself a success.

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About the Author

Rich Wolf is a formidable and wholly accomplished radical thinking philosopher of all time. Ann autodidactic polymath with a wide array of expertise in several fields. He is also the founder of True Success™ and several other business ventures.


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